Passion Island
Passion Island

By Tana Marie

Unconditional Love


One of the secrets of successful relationships is your romance must be based on Unconditional Love. We have all heard about it, but how do you actually Do it?

• Unconditional love is seeing the beauty, strength, majesty and ongoing miracles that comprise your partner.

• Unconditional Love is NOT supporting destructive, abusive or negative behaviors, attitudes or habits in your partner. This is NOT love, it is codependence.

• Never dishonor yourself by doing or supporting anything that goes against your values, morals or beliefs, "In the name of Love" or "for the sake of the relationship." Unconditional Love NEVER asks you to compromise who or what you are.

• Unconditional Love is supporting the positive growth in one another, even if it seems like your paths are going in divergent directions.

• Unconditional Love is honoring the similarities as well as the differences between you.

• When a mistake is made, Unconditional Love allows partners to address the behavior that caused the mistake, rather than attacking or blaming the person.

• Unconditional Love uses truth and honesty as an essential tool for closeness and growth. It never masks anger, hatred, blame or disappointment behind "truth" or "honesty." Telling the truth about anything should never be a punishment, be abusive, blaming or a "get-even." Always tell the truth in the most compassionate way possible.

Unconditional Love is the most amazing feeling we humans can experience – and it is best when given away!


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